Even though no one wants to admit it, we all know that
some women are prolific liars. These type are so skillful in
the act that they almost never get caught at it which
invariably makes them good cheaters (that's a story for
another day). From lying about their age to their
relationship status, they completely leave men behind
when it comes to lying and getting away with it. It is my
hope that this list and article in its entirety will help you
understand some of the common lies told by women, why
they tell those lies and how silly they are.
Age
This perhaps is the commonest lie told by women and the
reason why they do is not that far-fetched. I have dated
girls from different age groups ranging from the 18-22 year
old group and 24-29 year old group. I got to discover that
those that fell within the 24-29 year old group lied more
about their age. They always took off 2 to three years out
of their original age.
Obviously, women lie about their age because they feel
men are mostly attracted to younger women and would
perceive older women as controlling. Despite the facade
the media tries to create by trying to alter the perception
of age. It's a natural biological instinct for women to know
when men are most attracted to them and once they are
above the age when men swoon over them, they naturally
try to remain attractive and lie about their real age which
unfortunately, doesn't work.
Being Single
This is another common lie women tell. A very obvious one
is claiming to have a boyfriend when a guy they don't like
is making a move on them. However, the opposite of this is
more common as women will pointedly tell a guy they like
that they are single when it is actually the opposite. If they
fail to tell you they are single when they like you, they
might just feign ignorance and avoid talking about the man
in their life which happens to be as good as lying about it.
I have been with two girls who were actually in serious
relationships before we got hooked and both never
mentioned their boyfriends while we were together.
Perhaps it was because I never asked because I avoid
complications that way. I never got to know they were in
relationships until an awkward message or call comes into
their phones.
Of cause, some ladies try to juggle two relationships at a
time, just as other would dump the old guy for the new
one. Other ones basically want to cheat on their boyfriends
of many years for the thrill and excitement the new guy
they barely know brings. The scary thing about this is that
the men they end up cheating with are mostly douche bags
and they are barely honest about it with their boyfriends. A
recent study says that 50% of women admitted that they
would give their boyfriend another man's child while 42%
of women said they would lie about taking birth control so
they could get pregnant.
We are just friends, he's not interested
"We are just friends, he's not interested in me." is another
common lie women tell. One would be dumb to believe
that the women actually believe this given the "I miss you,"
"You look so sexy in that picture," etc that the supposed
friends constantly bombard them with. The messages were
clear indications that these girls know that these guys
wanted more as some of them even reply with the same.
The reason why women do this can be adduced to their
crave for validation, interest in a future relationship or
pure boredom. Women keep some guys around as a
backup plan who they continue to chat, flirt and keep
around in case their ongoing relationship fails to work or
someone whose shoulders can be available to cry on when
they have problems in their relationships.
More so, women will keep some other guys whom they
previously had an interest around so that they may ignite a
spark. And as a guy, always bear in mind that women will
leave you behind the moment they find someone that's
more valuable than you are. This sounds somewhat scary
given that a wide array of opportunists can easily get to
sleep with her but the bright side is that you could also
find yourself on the other side.
I don't flirt with other guys
Women often tell this lie given how ambiguous the
definition of flirting is. I see flirting as talking and acting in
a way that could lead a normal man to believe that you are
sexually interested in him. Women are very good at
reading body language and can easily deduce if they are
flirting or someone is flirting with them. They also do know
when a guy wants much more from them. Most women
flirt just to kill boredom and have backup plans in case
their present relationship fails to work.
I've never done this before
If you haven't heard this a couple of times, then you are
probably lacking in experience. It is common to hear a
lady say "I've never done this" when you bring her home
from an outing. They believe saying this will help you
believe they are good girls and will never follow a guy they
barely know home but you'd be a fool to believe this as
you are one in a long list who has passed the same
routine. Ladies try to appear innocent so as not to lose an
opportunity of being in a relationship with you. Every one
knows " a hoe can't be made a housewife" and for this
reason, they try to create a positive perception, hoping you
get to fall for it and a lot of men actually do fall for it.
Another study recently alluded that the higher the number
of sexual partners a a man or woman has had between
age 18 and the time of first marriage or cohabitation, the
more likely he or she is to be unfaithful.
Last time she had sex
I enjoy asking this question because of the fun of knowing
how much girls lie about it. For reasons unknown, most
girls tend to say the last time they had sex was 6 to 8
months back. Unfortunately, even though it seems to
sound right to them, it is a lie 4 out of 5 times. The fact that
women know guys don't want to date or marry a slut
makes them pretend to be innocent in the hope that it will
give them a positive perception.
Number of Sexual Partners
A lot of girls lie about their body count or how many guys
they have been with. This can be adduced to the fact that
they want to be seen as innocent. They know if they tell the
truth, most guys would just want to smash and leave.
These lies tell us that we have been lied to all through life.
However, one good thing about her telling you all these
lies is that she has a serious interest in you. This however
doesn't make it right for you to be duped into a
relationship. Women tend to use the fact that we crave
good girls and have become good in the act of deception.
Nonetheless, if they want a good guy, they have to work for
it not by getting it through the shortcut.
I'm not the writer of this article
But the writer couldn't have been wrong with all these
assertions.
But a man asking a babe about the last point,
shouldn't expect an honest answer.. How could a lady
that has been with over 7 guys tell you the truth, she
would either say you are the 2nd or the 3rd...
So do you agree with the writer?
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