9 Feb 2015

8 RESONS WHY SOME PEOPLE STRUGGLE TO SUCCEED

1. They don't understand the value of time.
Year after year millions of goals are made but never
achieved simply because people can't be bothered putting
in the time required to be successful. Time management is
a vital skill to become successful. Time is more valuable
than money itself.
2. They have self-imposed limitations.
"You are what you are by what you believe" – Oprah
Winfrey
Unsuccessful people tend to say things like "I'm just not
good at…", "I just really hate…", and "I just don't think I
can…". They put limits on themselves and excuse their
behaviour but it's really just a way of underachieving and
aiming low enough to not miss.
3. They are good at making excuses.
These are the people who will find reasons and logic as to
why they can't and why they shouldn't (but never really
try). They sometimes mistake this abhorrent tendency for
"just being realistic".
4. They lack class.
They don't know how to treat other people and tend to be
arrogant, for no apparent reasons most of the time. Saying
things like "well at least I'm being honest" or "this is how I
am, deal with it". Being nice and polite to people you like is
easy, being nice and polite to someone you cannot tolerate
or who you are in constant disagreement with – that is
character.
5. They are procrastinators.
"Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die
having left undone" ― Pablo Picasso
Successful people understand that every day is a gift and
you owe it to yourself to do everything you can do in those
twenty four hours because nothing's ever promised today
tomorrow.
6. They don't' take action.
"Do something today, your future self will thank you for" –
Les Brown
The simplicity of this rule of life may be why they disregard
the magnitude of its effects. Stop dreaming about what will
be, dreams in themselves are not bad but get up, show up
and DO something.
7. They can't face adversity.
"All sunshine and no rain makes a dessert" – Arabian
Proverb
Unsuccessful people give up all too quickly because things
got uncomfortable, things got a little bit rough, they want
roses without the thorns, babies without labour and a pot
of gold at the end of the rainbow without bearing the
storm. Overcoming challenges not only bring us closer to
our goals but they turn us into someone we never
imagined existed. Don't be afraid to conquer fears and to
enter new territory, step out of your comfort zone and
challenge yourself. In the midst of adversity courage is
born.
8. They are apathetic.
Apathy is a silent killer. Find something that you are
passionate about, even if you don't get paid for it. Put your
gift to use.

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