We guys have been made to think that we
must always do anything possible to impress
the female folk. I'm not against a guy loving
her babe, I'm against a guy doing silly things in
order to impress a lady.
The truth is that most times, these actions
come back to haunt us while, we get to regret
at the end.
1. Consuming too much alcohol: most guys are
guilty of this especially when trying to woo a
lady or when taking her to bed.
This is wrong in so many ways: it will damage
your health, its a temporary measure, you
most times end up misbehaving and its not a
guarantee that you'll succeed in wooing or
performing well in bed. Besides, the lady will
know that you took something and that you
lack confidence and esteem. Be yourself.
2. Spending above your means: whether it's
buying things you don't really need in order to
look rich and fly, or spoiling the lady with
things you normally should not be buying. Its
wrong.
I see a lot of guys do this and I keep
wondering to what purpose? The worst is
many of them come back to their senses when
its already too late!
3. Lying: I'm not talking about the small lies
guys normally tell, I'm talking about bragging
to a lady about what you're not.
Why tell a lady your father is Dangote's
brother, or you're a Chelsea player, or you
work in Shell. This will make her have high
expectation from you which you would be
trying to live up to.
4. Badmouthing your fellow guys: Maybe a guy
that is also coming after her. Its wrong for a
guy to maltreat his fellow in any way because
of a lady.
Whether its badmouthing, fighting or
quarelling with him, its not worth it.
5. Giving up your values and beliefs: Maybe
you're a committed Christian or Muslim, you
start backsliding or become uncommitted
because she told you to.
You start to abandon your loved ones and
family, your studies begin to nosedive and
even your job sef, you become unserious. Its
a very silly thing to do because when the chips
are down, those are the only things that will
get you going- God, your family and loved
ones and your job which will put food on your
table.
6. Pretending to be who you're not: there's no
need to pretend to be a bad guy if you're not.
There are still ladies who value good guys. You
don't need to force yourself to seem confident
if you're a shy guy. People will know you're
just acting it up.
No comments:
Post a Comment